Having read plenty of articles on male escorting concept from various websites and magazines and
having carried out my own in-depth research through various anonymous surveys with women, it became clear that substantial number of women misinterpret the whole concept.
This is because they automatically assign male escorting to paid sex.
And paying for sex is though of being somewhat dirty, desperate and degrading.
A girl that would pay for sex is considered to be too lazy to put in the effort and have a real relationship and is pittied.
They label male escort as someone who is solely interested in money, has no real interest in a client and performs his role based on fake emotions.
They say it cannot be much of an ego booster, as male escort is only there with you because you paid him and not because he wants to.
They assume there is no romance, there no sincere gestures..its a job, it's the routine male escorts do to keep you coming back, just like the other women who want someone to pay attention to them.
They argue that with all the modern forms of finding a guy (online dating, online chat) or meeting a person in a random bar, through mates, through all the avenues that there is - there's loads of other ways of finding a guy that you didn't have to pay to be with you.
What is male escorting about, really?
Is there any truth in the above?
The truth is that most of the criticism comes from non-single women and from those who never experienced a date with a pro male escort.
Please note, that by referring to a pro male escort, I do not mean some filthy drug addict bi rent boy who's only agenda is to have sex without using a condom, but a straight handsome good looking & attractive gentleman who specialises in escorting modern women, who does this job for a living and not as a part time gig.
So if you are prepared to keep an open mind - you will see a different picture.
I'd like to clarify that in reality there are only limited number of true professional male escorts per major city.
These men love their profession.
Money and sex are not the main motivators.
They simply love women and adore them and want to treat them like real ladies.
In the same way true musicians create music because they love music and financial gain is merely a bonus.
Most often, women who lead a busy life, simply want to have a fun night out: hang out with, be romanced, have a meal with, perhaps have intimacy with, but without having to be linked with a man or committed to man in any way.
In this respect, male escort services become very convenient where the boundaries are clear.
It doesn't male a girl lazy at all, and paying someone for such services removes all the complications of leading people on, playing games, etc.
It makes more sense to pay a clean guy for one-night-stand, then troubling around someone who won't give you what you want immediately and fulfil your expectations.
Hiring a man for a date can also feel quite empowering and naughty.
Some great feedback to my anonymous surveys came from one lady in particular that I would like to quote:
Male escorting is a professional service, not something you get in everyday life, so it is a paid service, like anything else.
If you have emotional problems and need help, you don't go meet a random guy at the pub and let it all out on him, hoping that he will help you.
You go to a trained professional, a psychiatrist to talk and you pay him.
Similarly if you want a massage, you don't find a random guy, get friendly with him and ask for a massage.
He has had professional training and can give a far greater massage with no awkwardness than any random guy, so it's a paid service.
This is no different.
People need to remove the stigma about "sex" from this, and see it as just another experience that any woman is perfectly entitled to want, and should in no way feel guilty for wanting that.
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